The greatest challenge in our life is to find someone who knows our flaws and differences and yet still willingly embraces you with so much love. If someone comes into your life and becomes a a part of you but for some reasons he couldn't stay, don't cry too much...just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while.
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Resigned.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Friday, December 25, 2009
Thankful.
Received a number of presents from several people this year! Indeed, a blessed and merry Christmas I had. Not because of the physical gifts that I received but from the love and warmth from every person that is in my life right now!
The most blissful thing that has happened to me this year, is getting married to Sylvester Swee! I'm thankful to our heavenly Father for giving me such a great husband that anyone can wish for!
I will like to thank the following people!
Hwee Hian - Thank you for the metal chopsticks! Exactly the ones that I've always wanted to get! Haa...
Jasline, Jane, Annie, Siew Leng: Thank you for the presents. Love each of them! =P
Syl Mommy: Thank you for all the pink stuff! =P (All are so useful, especially during my mugging sessions next year!)
Tua Yee: Thank you for the weighing machine! Kekeee... Now that I am able to weigh myself at home too! Can shift to our new house (if Bester and I can ever get one!)
Kor Bastian and Charmaine: Thank you for the toning shower gel! An essential item especially after so many rounds of yummy food during the festive season!
Last but not least, Merry Christmas everyone! Ho Ho Ho...
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Monday, December 21, 2009
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Wednesday, December 09, 2009
Exams is over!
Thursday, November 26, 2009
~Stifling anger at work can kill~
SINGAPORE - Men who bottle up their anger at being unfairly treated at work are up to five times more likely to suffer a heart attack, or even die from one, than those who let their frustration show, a Swedish study has found.
The study by the Stress Research Institute of Stockholm University followed 2,755 employed men who had not suffered any heart attacks from 1992 to 2003.
At the end of the study, 47 participants had either suffered an attack, or died from heart disease, and many of those had been found to be "covertly coping" with unfair treatment at work.
Covert coping was listed as "letting thing pass without saying anything" and "going away" despite feelings of being hard done by colleagues or bosses.
Men who often used these coping techniques had a two to fivefold higher risk of developing heart disease than those who were more confrontational at work, the study showed.
The researchers said they could not answer the question of what might be a particularly healthy coping strategy at work, but listed open coping behaviour when experiencing unfair treatment or facing a conflict as "protesting directly", "talking to the person right away", "yelling at the person right away" or "speaking to the person later when things have calmed down".
The study was published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.
Asiaone
Wed, Nov 25, 2009
Reuters
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Errr...
=) That is what I call internalisation.
People, I am a married woman.
Time to grow up and no more behaving like a cry baby.
Thursday, November 05, 2009
Get a grip on stress
"When the person cannot handle the situation which he perceives as stressful, he will get easily irritated, agitated, anxious, start overeating and find it difficult to fall asleep."
Friday, October 30, 2009
Friday, October 09, 2009
=(
I guess my interest is still in the banking industry.
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
down...
I am tired. Really tired. Nothing that it is to be done can help recover the vigour that I once have.
Monday, October 05, 2009
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Rounds.
Guess what we saw when we were about to leave? The road sign was on the ground. Haa.
Tuesday, September 01, 2009
Mixed feelings.
Wishing all teachers and mentors who have taught me in some way or another - a very Happy Teachers' Day!!!
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Heavy responsibility.
My parents are the greatest!
Monday, August 24, 2009
Friday, August 21, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
I don't know...
"I don't know about tomorrow.
I just live from day to day.
And I don't borrow from its sunshine.
For its skies may turn to gray.
And I don't worry about my future.
For I know what Jesus said.
And today He walks beside me.
For He knows what lies ahead."
Monday, August 17, 2009
Friday, August 14, 2009
Typing away...
"We are marching in the life of God! We are marching in the life of God! We are marching in the life of God! We are marching in the life of God! We are maching, marching, marching uh-ohhhhh! We are marching in the life of God! We are maching, marching, marching uh-ohhhhh! We are marching in the life of God!"
Learnt this song when I attended a church camp back in Primary 3. Mrs Sng, my form teacher was the one who brought me and a few of my classmates to her church. I too brought along my little brother to get some fun!
Making the long story short, my brother and I were splitted into different groups and I was dead worry about him. I was scared that he might feel shy and not able to adapt. But thank goodness, God actually allowed him to be always in my sight. Hee.. Feeling emo so I want to blog about this lor. Haa.
The good old times.
And now we have all grown up to be (uh-hmm) fine young lady and gentleman.
Monday, August 10, 2009
Parents.
When we were young and needed some favors from our parntes, they never hestitate to attend to us immediately. But when our aging parents need help, we always tend to say the word "later" to them. How many times have that "later" never come to be realized? Almost everytime, I guess.
How many "laters" can our parents afford?
Please treasure time with your love ones. Be it your parents, your siblings, your spouses, your friends and even your pets at home.
Time is precious, to everyone!
P.S: I don't want to appear naggy. So here I am blogging.
Friday, August 07, 2009
Wednesday, August 05, 2009
Yummy.
Last night mommy's deep fried cod fish was simply delicious too!!! haaha...
Think because I'm having the PMS, feel like eating a lot of food! I want to eat dark sauce hokkien mee from Toa Payoh Lorong 1 Blk 127! Sigh.
As you may have guessed, I have put on a lot of weight already! hahaa...
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Tough.
Next thing that I need to get myself? That is the cupboard! Hee. Think I will really have to go down to Courts and see if they still have my favourite cupboard there. Keeping my fingers cross. Hopefully there still is...
Having tummy ache right now!
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Career.
I was having a chat with my FM and told her all the uncertainties that I felt. Well, I do not know whether I have the aptitude and abilities to become an accountant. I am blur and careless which are great flaws if I really am becoming one. My favourite word is "anything" so how am I going to make decisions (in future, future, future, future...) when I am in a managerial position? Sigh. I just feel stupid and incapable.
Am I thinking too much?
But I am very happy to have great mentors! And the greatest of them all, my FM! =)
Monday, July 13, 2009
Friday, July 10, 2009
Random.
Nice clothes @ http://www.myglamourplace.blogspot.com/!
I have vouchers from there! =) Let me know if you all need anything.
[edited at 9.22am]
Related forms:
cav⋅a⋅lier⋅ly, adverb
Synonyms:5. indifferent, offhand, uncaring, thoughtless, condescending.
cavalierly. (n.d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Retrieved July 09, 2009, from Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/cavalierly
[edited at 9.34am]
okie. Girls are fickle minded. I admit (I never try to deny!) I am now in a total mess. My room. My thoughts.
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Lethargic.
Fat. Fat. Sad. Sad. But hungry. Heck.
Wednesday, July 08, 2009
Get well soon!
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
Blessed.
"kopped" from Ping Hui! hehee... Do the test and see which language you use to give and receive love!
http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.asp
From Gary Chapman: The Heart of the Five Love Languages Love language #1: words of affirmation Love language
#2: quality time Love language
#3: receiving gifts Love language
#4: acts of service Love language
#5: physical touch
Simply blessed.
Saturday, July 04, 2009
The last bit.
There has been an article about posting child birth videos on the internet. Being the kay-po me, I went to search for some, and BINGO! But I will warn those weak hearted (and I do consider myself above average with a stronger heart.
There has been a "myth" (well, I am not too sure if it is true or not) that guys should not be allowed to watch their wives giving birth due to the bloody scenes and loud screamings. Husbands will later lose interest in having um-hum with their wives. Haa.
While watching, I was quite amazed at how this small little thing actually grows in the woman's womb. I teared a bit when the little baby boy was crying and opened his eyes. He is simply too adorable! But as I continued watching, I began to feel uncomfortable and the world started to spin. Gosh. How am I able to go through when it is my turn to have my first experience of child birth? Think Bester better not come in and watch me scream my lungs out too!
Hee.
Wednesday, July 01, 2009
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Monday, June 29, 2009
Messy.
My life is actually in a mess. There are so much more that I have to do to get it right on the track. Right now, I am feeling hot and uncomfortable. With the flu bug lingering around, it will get me sooner or later (crossing my fingers and toes!).
Feeling fat and tired.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Fish & Co.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Mudpie with ice cream.
Had a great dinner date with Jen & Jacky and Ying! Hehee.. Went shopping too. Ha. Those were the days!
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Heart wrenching.
While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father.....with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions......sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'. The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life..... Things are to be used and people are to be loved, But the problem in today's world is that, People are used and things are loved... During this year, let's be careful to keep this thought in mind: Things are to be used, but People are to be loved ...
Be yourself....This is the only day we HAVE.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Counting down.
www.jaster150704.blogspot.com
Friday, June 12, 2009
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Random.
So what is my purpose of coming to the Earth? By chance? Definitely not. But till now I am still unsure why I am here. I feel that I am "squandering" my time away as I have been doing things that have no priority over the others. Here are some things which I have procrastinated doing for a long time.
1) Dolling up my room. Yes! This has been a project that is not planned and executed at all. And to think on my 21st birthday, my buddies actully bought me IKEA vouchers so that I can achieve my dream room. Sorry guys to have let you all down. But I will have to do it soon because of my upcoming wedding which is going to be held later this year.
2) Erm. Will update when I have thought of it. Ha. That's it! I am procrastinating thinking what have not been done!
Oh yes. By posting my feelings and thoughts in here, it will be free for all to read. If you have views and comments, I will still welcome you to leave a message in the tagboard. A blog, in my opinion is not really a "personal" personal diary. The entries are posted in the internet and so it is meant for people to read it anywhere, anytime! If you really will want to make it a private one, please change the setting to "only the blog author is able to read whatever that is in there." and not to whine, saying that people are intruding into your privacy.
One of my colleagues is pregnant! Such a wonderful piece of news, isn't it? A new life will be brought to this world. My actual day videographer, he too has just been promoted to the rank of "daddy". I have seen the photos of his little boy on his blog. He looks just so adorable! Congratulations to Why Keen and his wife for having give birth to a baby boy!
Quite random isn't it? I am jumping from one topic to another. Random.
5.36pm
Do you all like my blogskin? It makes me feel kind of 感伤.
Thursday, June 04, 2009
Advocate.
2.
a person who speaks or writes in support or defense of a person, cause, etc. (usually fol. by of): an advocate of peace.
3.
a person who pleads for or in behalf of another; intercessor.
4.
a person who pleads the cause of another in a court of law.
(American Psychological Association (APA):
advocate. (n.d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Retrieved June 03, 2009, from Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.classic.reference.com/browse/advocate)
"To live lives of purity and intergrity that honor our heavenly Father.."
He's there listening.
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Friday, May 22, 2009
Older and mature.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Words for the day.
-noun
1.
(in writing or speech) the undue use of exaggeration or display; bombast.
2.
the art or science of all specialized literary uses of language in prose or verse, including the figures of speech.
3.
the study of the effective use of language.
4.
the ability to use language effectively.
5.
the art of prose in general as opposed to verse.
6.
the art of making persuasive speeches; oratory.
7.
(in classical oratory) the art of influencing the thought and conduct of an audience.
8.
(in older use) a work on rhetoric.
Sacrosanct
-adjective
1.
extremely sacred or inviolable: a sacrosanct chamber in the temple.
2.
not to be entered or trespassed upon: She considered her home office sacrosanct.
3.
above or beyond criticism, change, or interference: a manuscript deemed sacrosanct.
(from http://dictionary.reference.com/)
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Busy schedule.
Not deterred by any unhappiness I face, I just want to make my life more... meaningful... colourful? But, I'm feeling empty.
Guesstimate. A new word that I've learnt today!
–verb (used with object)
1.
to estimate without substantial basis in facts or statistics.
–noun
2.
an estimate arrived at by guesswork.
Friday, May 15, 2009
Rants.
No housing. High cost of living. Everything is so expensive.
Bored.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Random, random, random.
As a daughter, I didn't treat my parents to the ultimate best.
As a girlfriend, I am insensible.
As a friend, I failed to be a good one.
As an employee, I didn't put in my best effort.
As myself, I am feeling vexed and upset as I didn't maintain my outlooks.
On a happier note, we (Jacky+Jen, Ying, Wen, Carinne) had an enjoyable time catching up with one another at Westmall Sakae and Coffee Bean. Now I realise what was meant to be when the comment was given.
Sigh.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Constantly searching...
If you are a Mouse: Always up to some sort of a mischief! Themischievousgleam in your eyes is what makes you so cute and attractive toeveryone.You are an extremely fun-to-be-with kind of person. No wonder, peopleseekfor your company and look forward to include you for all get-togethers.However, you are sensitive, which is a drawback. People need to selecttheir words while talking to you. If someone tries to fiddle aroundandplay with words while dealing with you, it is enough to invite yourwrath.God bless the person then!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Mature.
Individualistic.
Commitment. If there is any?
Decipher.
Monday, April 06, 2009
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
Don't be childish!
Don't let the emotions get the better of me.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
Un-important.
All the better, lesser responsibilities.
Leadership is much more than just knowing how to think.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Things you should know about me...
* Abstract thoughts
* Loves reality and abstract
* Intelligent and clever
* Changing personality
* Temperamental
* Quiet, shy and humble
* Low self esteem
* Honest and loyal
* Determined to reach goals
* Loves freedom
* Rebellious when restricted
* Loves aggressiveness
* Too sensitive and easily hurt
* Showing anger easily
* Dislike unnecessary things
* Loves making friends but rarely shows it
* Daring and stubborn
* Ambitious
* Realizing dreams and hopes
* Sharp
* Loves entertainment and leisure
* Romantic on the inside not outside
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Monday, March 09, 2009
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Rantings.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Sunday, February 15, 2009
...con't








4) The only "couple" without their the other half - Carinne and Pei Ying
And for this expensive gift, I want to thank Sylvester, my brother and my parents!!! Thank you thank you for getting it for me. I really can't survive without a computer at home. Haha, and as for my brother, thank you again for the beautiful white, limited edititon, LongChamp bag that you have bought. Everyone has only got praises for it because it looks so beautiful.
Friday, February 13, 2009
My first...
A LONGCHAMP limited edition bag from my brother! Thank you di and Suyun. It's realli lovely!
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Valentine's Day Eve.
Spa treatment.
Manicure and pedicure treatment.
New NOKIA phone, touch screen?
Cupboard. My room is messy again.
A new calculator. Always forgetting to bring the office one to school.
A big new pencil case that can contain all my stationerys and my calculator.
Coffeebean Triple Decker Cheesecake.
Petrol Vouchers. Oil is getting more expensive.
More time and rest. Ha.
How do you know...
1) When you find that your car is going especially fast although you are driving at normal speed.
2) When you see amber light and you will dash across the road no matter what.
3) When your hand is so heavy on the horn, that it was giving out unnecessary noise.
4) When all you think is to reach home, brush your teeth, bathe and just go to bed.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Ah!
You are driving on the road and suddenly something caught your eye. No, it is not a "yan dao" who is driving a sports car winking at you, trying to catch your attention. Instead you saw something creepy, a baby cockroach with the its two long things twirling around, and it is right there staring at you. What will you do?
a) Scream your lungs out and lose control of your wheels.
b) Stay clam and just let it be, praying that it would just stay put till you reach your destination.
c) Catch it with a piece of tissue and throw it in a plastic bag that you can find.
d) Fainted.
Hahaa.
Less complaining. It is all my fault. I am paid to do all those. I apologise. Please accept my sincere apologies.
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
It's time...
=) yawn. Tired. It's tired to be perfect... or maybe just up to my expectations. So am I aiming high or are my goals easy to achieve but just that I do not have cababilities and determination?
Sigh. So many things. So much. So little.
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
2009 CNY.
Lee family had their dinner at home with their Peony Jade Restaurant take away set. This nearly became the venue for our upcoming wedding banquet. Heard lots of good reviews their food and we were so looking forward to it. Overall, I find it quite value for money. Taste wise wasn't that great as we thought it would turn out to be. But still, the portions given were generous and the taste was still to our liking la.
Yawn. 4 days of rest doesn't seem enough. There is so much to do yet so little time. Sigh.
=) Anyway, I just hope that this ox year will bring good fortune to everyone. Huat ah!!!
Monday, January 26, 2009
Happy MOO MOO year!!!
Monday, January 19, 2009
Friday, January 16, 2009
Pain in the ...
I find it rude.
I won't mind if you are a senior or my bestest buddy.
Fuming mad.
Thursday, January 15, 2009
My wish list.
Spa treatment.
Manicure and pedicure treatment.
New NOKIA phone. Yet to seen one which I like.
Cupboard. My room is messy again.
1 set of new OL clothes.
1 set of new casual wear.
1 set of new smart casual wear. Ha. What's the diff?
A new calculator. Always forgetting to bring the office one to school.
A big new pencil case that can contain all my stationerys and my calculator.
The list will get longer.
What I really want, TIME. FREE TIME.
Sanity.
Stupid me. Careless me. I should have saved instead of just opening it off hand. Urgh. And I have to retype everything! Gulped!
School is making me suffocated. Pace is rapid. I am getting out of breath. My heart is pumping.
Time is running - short... Another 10 months time and I am a MRS.